Marriage counselling Calgary believes that marriage is super hard work: Marriage requires effort, compromise, and commitment from both partners. It’s not always going to be easy, but the effort is worth it.
Let’s look at some marriage advice you wish you knew from the beginning to improve your relationships.
Communication: Communication is essential to a healthy relationship. Be open, honest, and respectful when talking with your partner.
Learn to let go of the small stuff: In any relationship, there will be disagreements and annoyances. Learn to let go of the small stuff and focus on what really matters.
Remember to have fun: Marriage isn’t just about work and responsibilities. Make time to have fun with your partner and enjoy each other’s company.
Show appreciation and gratitude: Express appreciation and gratitude towards your partner for the things they do, no matter how small.
Be willing to work on yourself: Marriage is an opportunity for personal growth and development. Be willing to work on yourself and make changes to improve the relationship.
Work on getting to the root of the issue: If all a couple does is spend time on getting there needs and wants met the relationship with go nowhere, with the exception of possibly spinning out of control. Work hard at getting to the root of the issue of what’s getting in the way of getting what you want/need in a healthy way.
Seek help when needed: Don’t be afraid to seek help from a qualified counselling therapist, clinical counsellor, or psychotherapist if you’re struggling in your marriage. It’s okay to ask for help.
Remember, every marriage is unique, and there is no one-size-fits-all approach to a successful relationship. But by focusing on communication, letting go of the small stuff, having fun, showing appreciation, working on yourself, and seeking help when needed, you can build a strong and fulfilling marriage and walk in New Life.
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Lindsey McCallum (CCC) is a Canadian Certified Counsellor and Jeremiah La Follette (RPC, MPCC) is a Registered Professional Counsellor and Master Practitioner in Clinical Counselling who both have a passion for providing positive results by restoring healthy relationships and individual wholeness.
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